Being preselected by women and why it's important.
Preselection is not just a time saving mechanism. Here's an interesting tidbit written by Dr. Robert Baker.
"Basically, a woman uses a man's approach to foreplay and intercourse to gain information about him. A man who is able to arouse a woman and stimulate her to orgasm signals that he does have past experience of other females. This tells her that other women have also found him attractive enough to allow intercourse. The more effectively he stimulates her the more experienced he should be -- and hence the greater the number of women who have
so far found him to be attractive.
Mixing her genes with his, therefore, may produce sons or grandsons who are also attractive to women, hence increasing her reproductive success.
Interestingly, the females of some species of birds are also known to use this yardstick during mate selection. If a female sees one or more other females mating with a particular male, she also is more likely to mate with him. So being seen to be attractive to other females is an attractive male trait in its own right Despite the difficulties, virtually all men eventually learn the basics of intercourse, and most learn even the subtleties. But the faster they are able to learn, the fewer opportunities for insemination they will miss in their lifetime, and the more children they are likely
to father, with more women, than their slower-learning contemporaries."
What's all this mean to us?
Biologically and logically it confirms what we teach. It also shows there is some emotion in preselection. Jealousy plotline, anyone? Overall, being preselected raises our value to other women around us.
Of course, preselection has to be shown in some form. You must either have at least one girl with you, on your arm, or be able to confidently tell a story that has preselection embedded in it. The fact that you are preselected shows other women that you are safe, and other guys that you are not such a threat . . . unless you bring yourself across as being a threat once the shield is down, and cause that shield to go back up.
Also, you can be preselected by having a woman with you, and you still may not be effectively showing that you are preselected. For instance, if the woman with you ignores you all night and socializes with others. Even though she walked in with you, her actions beyond that point could destroy your preselection. Unless you're a social guy yourself, then the preselection was effective.
The point here is, whether you walk into a venue with a woman or not, you can be effective or disastrous with the preselection switch. It's all in how you carry yourself, and that comes down to your mindset.
You can be preselected mentally whether you have a woman physically with you or not. The fact is, if you know, without a doubt, in your own mind, that you can pick up women anywhere, anytime, then you know that you have options. This knowledge comes across in your social interactions with other men and women. If you don't know this, in your own mind, then you come across more needy, because you truly don't have options and don't believe that you can have options either.
This is really the core of this switch. It's you, conveying that you do, in fact, have options. It's a sexy trait. It shows confidence in yourself. It reveals that you are comfortable with who you are, and that you can pick up this girls' friends if you don't like her. You are not simply settling for her because you have no options. This causes her to realize that your value is higher than most men, and attracts her to you. She, obviously, wants to be with a higher value man.
And why shouldn't she want to be with a higher value man? Just as you want to be with a hot woman.
Preselection. It opens her mind up to all new possibilities with you, the alpha male. That's a good thing. So, get yourself preselected.